We went to see our cardiologist last Friday and we are so thankful and pleased to say it was a wonderful appointment. First of all, we didn't have to wait very long which is a huge blessing in itself. Waiting in doctors offices with a newborn is not easy.
Field is doing GREAT! His weight gain is exactly where they want it. He is gaining an appropriate amount of weight each week, which is a huge victory for us. His oxygen saturation levels are perfect - in the low 90's. His pulse and heart rate are perfect. And...the heart looks perfect! Dr. Porische said the word "perfect" so many times that I thought I was going to jump up and give her a huge bear hug! Tame yourself, momma bear Lisa. When I say perfect, I do mean Field's perfect. We know that his heart is not "normal," but it looks perfect for him. We are so thankful that there do not seem to be any other issues with the heart, other than the obvious single ventricle. There are no leaky valves, blood flow is good, and the pulmonary artery band that they placed on his artery in July looks...PERFECT!
I think the shock of Field's special heart is starting to wear off and so Brad and I are starting to ask better and more educated questions at our appointments. I guess I should speak for myself - Brad asks excellent questions as he understands exactly how the heart works, exactly what is going on with Field's heart, and exactly how the surgeries will "fix" his heart. I, on the other hand, didn't know much about the heart until now, so I am what you would call a novice heart mom. So, if you want to know more about Field's heart, ask Brad! Give me a few more years (I'm a slow learner) and I'll have it figured out. :)
Dr. Porische spent a lot of time with us during our appointment and was SO positive about Field and his future. We were very encouraged for Field. She also mentioned that she believes the kids that do the best and end up succeeding the most in life are the ones whose parents don't limit their possibilities - who allow them to do as they please - but just encourage them to take a break when they need it. Field will know his limits and will learn to rest when it's time. This just sounds like good parenting to me and I know Brad and I will always strive to be the very best parents to our Field. We ask those of you who are close to us to also encourage us to not limit Field. The sky is the limit for this baby boy and we don't ever want to stifle his opportunities.
We also discussed the timeline for the next surgery. The Glenn. Most babies have this surgery between 4-6 months of age, but when Field is between 4 and 6 months old, we will be in the height of flu and RSV season (October-December). The doctors want to do their best to keep us away from sick people and out of the hospital during that time. Because Field is doing SO well and his sats are in the normal range, we are thinking that we will wait until next Spring for the surgery - probably March or April. But we will just monitor Field and see how he's doing at our monthly cardiology appointments. He'll let us know when it's time for the surgery. (His O2 sats will drop!)
On that note, we are going to meet with
Dr. Charles Fraser at Texas Children's Hospital in September. We have heard wonderful things about Dr. Fraser, who is the chief surgeon for cardiac surgery and deals with all kinds of CHD's. We also know that TCH is one of the best children's hospitals in the nation. We want only the best for Field. After our visit to Houston, Brad and I will discuss and pray about our best option for Field and his next surgery. We would love it it you all would pray for us as we make this important decision.
I am so thankful for my new friend,
Jesse, who has reached out to me this past week. Sweet Brad has been communicating with families who have similar stories to ours. He connected with a family located outside of Seattle. They have a darling son named Luke. Luke's heart is
very similar to Field's. He is 3 years older and has been through the first 2 surgeries. Luke is doing GREAT! His sweet mom, Jesse, has been emailing with Brad to check in on us and she and I have just recently connected. It is so great to have her friendship and I know Brad and I will look up to Jesse and her husband for the years to come.
We know these next few years are going to be tough, but we also know that God is so near to us right now. He is holding our family so strongly and He brings us so much joy with our sweet son, Field. As Jesse reminded me, the joy we feel for our son might not have been as deep without the pain. And Field's heart has given us a depth of gratitude that we may never have felt without this experience. Field is perfect in our eyes and we cannot be more thankful for him.
Here is a recent pic of Mr. Field with one of his girlfriends, Lily Yantis!
And another pic taken after church on Sunday!